It Takes a Village...
It has only been 14 days since my last post, an improvement on the 4 month hiatus between my first and second entries. I just recovered from another 6 a.m. workout down here in Hollywood, Florida and, as promised, I'm going to take you through my trip back home to the motherland.
It was the first time I had been to Nigeria since I was 5 years old, making it a trip that was long overdue. I am proud to be an American (am a good Mid-Western boy), but I have always felt bonded to Nigeria even from afar. My dad is an engineer by trade and is doing some consulting work in Lagos, so I stayed with him there. Lagos is a non-stop city with a population of over 10 million--people are in constant motion and won't hesitate to let you know if you're in their way. Driving in Lagos is like a Cedar Point thrill ride--you're practically flying then come to a dead stop, sometimes you go in circles, and you're only cautiously optimistic that your seatbelt will keep you from being tossed like a ragdoll.
I had the chance to finally meet family I only knew through pictures, and family friends I had only heard of through stories. My uncle, who is a medical doctor, founded his own clinic. Lagos has some really nice areas comparable to affluent suburbs here, but my uncle decided to put his clinic in one of the tougher areas of Nigeria. My mom, who is a registered nurse here in the US, told some of her doctor friends that I was going to Nigeria, and rallied them to donate medical supplies. My mom and her friends came through big time--we collected enough supplies to set up a free clinic. Under my uncle's guidance, the locals received basic medicines, blood pressure instruments, and other useful medical tools that are not easily accessible for the people in and around his clinic. With only a couple days notice, we were able to take care of over 250 people.
To my surprise, a number of local journalist caught wind of the fact I was going to be in Nigeria. They asked questions that may seem basic to us but were detailed and interesting to them--what type of ball we use and what it is made of? What do football shoes look like? Does it hurt when I hit people and would children in Nigeria be able to withstand the brute force that is part of the game?
The streets of Nigeria are teeming with young kids who were naturally built and seemed ready to strap pads on....it got me thinking about the opportunity I am blessed with to be able to play the game. My life could easily be so different if my parents hadn't made the sacrifices they did to move to the United States to give my siblings and and me a better life. Mom and Dad, I probably don't say this enough: thanks.
I had an opportunity to visit Abuja, the capital of Nigeria. It's not as hectic as Lagos which I would compare to the speed of New York City. I had an opportunity to meet with several government officials, and they asked what my ultimate vision would be for Nigeria. I told them that I want to create a youth football camp there after the season, and hopefully, down the road start a sports academy that will focus on academics and football. I'm not trying to be like Oprah (though I do wish I had her cash flow), I just want to give kids the same opportunity that I had with a game that enabled me to attend one of the finest universities and ultimately gave me a great jumping-off point toward my adult life.
I will be training in Florida until we report for training camp later this month. Will try to check in before camp.... in the meantime, let me know if you have any questions or suggestions for topics because it would be cool to make this a more interactive blog.
16 Comments:
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If you do make a football team for the youth, what would your team mascot be? Has any other football player went with you to visit Nigeria? Do you have a special touchdown celebration dance in the endzone for us Bengal fans?
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Great post! Thanks for sharing. Glad you are enjoying your travels.
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Thanks for writing Chinedum...your ideas for Nigeria sound good, I'm sure you can get a lot of support from around the league.
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duke rocks..i hope you kill the receivers this year on the field...not literally..figuratively..cheers buddy..lets dominate!!!
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Pretty...uh pretty...pretty good blog
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Chinedum Ndukwe -- Look at you now. Doing it for the love of the game!
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Awesome article. BTW, whenever I wear your jersey around town, I'm always explaining how to pronounce your name, and also giving your highlights from last year. Your fan base is growing!
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i think it would be awesome to hear about your days of growing up and playin football with me a nd chris cohen in the backyard and then just left us. haha keep it up man im gettin a jersey tomorrow. the tennessee boy
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Kedu Chinedum, I know I am really late commenting on this article (I've only been on the site since Oct '08) LOL, but I just wanted to let you know that I have been to Lagos as well so I know what you mean!
Some people in the U.S. have the idea that most countries in Africa are one big safari, but not true!! The car traffic in Lagos during rush hour is just as bad as any major city here in the U.S.A.--high-rise buildings, the whole nine! ;-) -
Howdy Chinedum. I am so proud to see that you have become a successful NFL player. I knew you had the potential and parental support to go far in life. I'm not sure you remember me but i use to babysit ya'll in columbia, Tn. Your Brother, Jeff.
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why is it that the bengals release players from training camp by knocking on their door at 5:30 am, waking them up, pulling them out of bed and bluntly telling them the have been released while at the door? ( see HBO first Episode of hard knocks) isnt this classless? other teams at least show some respect to the cut players by asking them into an office and talking with them privately. The bad thing is that the person that was doing the releasing seemed to enjoy it. Class, professionalism, respectability starts at the top, This is a childlike practice taken by Bengal upper management,not only is it disrespectful to the cut player but it is disrespectful to the active playersas well. ( even the cowboys show more respect to their cut players) Congratulations bengals. you just lost a fan. Any justification why they do this this way?
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I am so amazed at how selfless and giving you are (not saying that i never thought you would be) but its just great to hear how you are doing all of these wonderful things for children who are less fortunate. I hope you don't think this message is stalkerish, but I've been a Bengals fan for a long time and after you started to play for my team, I felt inclined to follow up on you and see what you were up to. Anyways, I hope you are doing well and congrats on everything you are doing :)... Erika Mismas
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In responce to biker341's comment:
I'm sure much of the cut process was fabricated and overdone for HBO. What drives ratings? Viewers. How do you enrourage viewers? Over-the-top drama. Exhibit A - MTV's Real World, and Bravo's Real Housewives of Wherever. If you were a true Bengals fan, you wouldn't judge the team based on how they're portrayed in the media, rather their efforts on and off the field.
Kudos, Ndukwe for your patronage to those less fortunate. Your support does not go unnoticed. -
Good Blog i just wanted to tell you that you are my second favorite player on the team and whatever anyone ever says you'll always be the best safety in the league to me
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Good Blog i just wanted to tell you that you are my second favorite player on the team and whatever anyone ever says you'll always be the best safety in the league to me
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YEAH GOOD BLOg !!!!!!!NOW Let's Talk Football Big Dog.TO ME The BEngals HAve The Best Team They Had Since 05 But They LOose Cause They Dnt Play You And Reggie Nelson On Defense Talk To Them Man Tell Them To Play The Best Players


